• should- implies judgment
  • need - implies judgment
  • exactly- we can't know
  • just - minimizes
  • sort of - minimizes
  • always, never - we can't know
  • kind of - minimizes
  • a little - minimizes
  • at least - silver lining
  • why - implies guilt & shame
  • my people- implies ownership
  • those people - creates distance

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